If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.

Friday, October 16, 2026

Just 3 Things

I'm looking forward to senior night at one of the granddaughter's school tonight. She will be honored as one of the senior band members. Tonight will be the first night of true fall football weather as we are expecting temperatures to dip into the forties overnight.

Lydia and her Sax

- What I've Been Working On -

I finished up another granddaughter set this week. She's also getting a Tote bag constructed from bandanas. These are certainly not the traditional bandanas I think of but I thought the print was cute. They were a bugger to work with, though. They are not American made nor were they 100% cotton. They were rather thin; so, I used iron on interfacing for each and every bandana to give it a bit of substance. 

Granddaughter's Bandana Bags

Once again, I did a little tweaking on the tote bag. I like the size - width - a bit better but I want to make it just a wee bit shorter. It will be good for toting a laptop around, though, when she is off to college next fall. 

The bandanas in this print came in a set of four different color ways. So, I used three of them for this set. The tote features the tan and brown print on the outside and is lined with the black and tan print on the inside. I used the other black and tan print to make a couple of medium bags. One is the boxy pouch shown above. 

The other medium-small sized one is called a Nami Knot design. It starts as a couple of squares and there are a couple of strips added to form the handles that are tied in a knot on top. I'm not sure it is really practical but it is cute and was relatively simple to construct. 


I made a little keychain card pouch and a wristlet key fob to go along with the other pouches. I chose the swirly, swoopy L because I wanted it to look a little bit like Laverne and Shirley. I'm not sure she will even know that reference but it makes me smile!

- What I've Been Watching -

I've been enjoying the new season of network television this week. Several years ago when the Mister was talking to a friend just before dinnertime, his friend said, "Well, I'd better get off of here and go make my nest in my recliner. Tonight I'm going to Chicago. I'll watch Chicago Med and Fire and Police and then shuffle off to bed." We chuckled about that but on Wednesdays for the past couple of weeks I've gone to Chicago for their new season showings. I kind of like how they reference and have guest cast members from one of those programs to the next. It sort of seems more like it really is a connected town.

- What I've Been Loving -

This week I've also been working on some birthday gifts. Part of the gift is personalized cup towels. I love personalizing them. It is such a quick and easy project! I bought a big chunk of dish towels. Then, I just pull one out and stitch something cute on it, press them, tie them up with a colorful piece of twine and it makes for a really cute gift!




Changing out the font for the name really changes up the look a bit and truly makes each one a unique and personalized gift. Plus, who doesn't use a good, absorbent cup towel in the kitchen? When it is decorated and cute, that seems to make the chores of cleaning up the kitchen a bit more pleasant.

I'm thinking that some sort of soup or stew might be on the menu this weekend since fall is truly here for us, what suggestions do you have for that sort of simmering pot?

Thursday, October 15, 2026

Today I noticed...Some road trips can be dubbed chat trips.

Yesterday my favorite sister-in-law and I took a road trip to see a long-time friend that we had not visited in quite a while. We put together a meal, loaded the food and ourselves into her SUV, and trekked off three hours to our friend's house. 

Now, my sister-in-law and I had just visited and caught up about a month ago when our grands were exhibiting livestock at a local fair. Then, we've also chatted via phone a couple or three times since. Yet, I noticed that the moment we got face to face for loading the food, we began chatting. 

For the entire trip to and from our friend's house, we chatted - never a quiet moment. The entire time we were at our friend's house one of the three of us was yakking. We talked about children, grandchildren, parents, housekeeping, sewing, cooking, health and our current medications... you name it, we touched on it. 

While our bodies were probably a bit tired from sitting still on the drive to and fro, neither of us was too tired to chat. Even when we returned to the house, my sister-in-law came in and checked out my recent stitching projects and we kept on chatting till she climbed into her SUV and backed out of the driveway. 

Maybe, instead of Wednesday, yesterday should be referenced as Chat Day!

Friday, October 9, 2026

Just 3 Things | #48

I've had a week that is pretty typical for me lately. I've had fun stitching and playing and learning using my sewing and embroidery machine.

- What I've Been Working On -

I worked on birthday gifts this week. We have a trio of family birthdays this month. So, I've stitched out a few things for gifts. 


I used some fabric left over from different projects to make a reversible table runner. One side has a pumpkin stitched on it and the other has a monogram. I thought that would make it nice for a fall Halloween or Thanksgiving table or could be used most any time of the year.

Reversible Table Runner

I also made a couple of potholders/hot pads from the same fabrics and added a monogram to them. 

Monogrammed Pot Holder

I decorated a couple of cup towels with the fabrics. I noticed that these particular fabrics are probably a bit heavy for decorating cup towels. I'm sure they will launder up alright but something like that would probably be better done with a light weight fabric stitched onto the towel. I love that kind of towel and I want to give a practical gift that will be used. I'll just have to remember next time to use a lighter weight fabric for decorating.

Decorated Cup Towels

The towel on the left with the points was a fun new learning experience for me. I cut squares and folded them into triangles. Then, stitched the raw edge between the decorative check fabric strip and the edge of the cup towel. The towel on the right was made sort of like a burrito pillowcase so that there are no stiff seams or raw edges.


I spent a bit of time learning to make a different kind of card and coin purse this week as well. It turned out alright but I've got some practicing to do before I decide that I am accomplished at creating something like that. I like that the snap is at the top to hold the card(s) in the center. The zipper is nice for keeping coins corralled and not losing out all over the place. I like that it has a loop with a swivel that can snap onto a lanyard, tote, or bag. It would also be handy on a wristlet/key fob, too. The other side has a monogram.

Monogrammed Wristlets/Key Fobs

I also made a try of making some wristlets/key fobs. I had gotten these cute little clamp thingies and wanted to give them a try. I like them and how they work. However, they are only an inch wide and I like the inch and a half width. So, I've got to figure out how to make that concept work. 

One Inch Wristlet

Bridgette has suffered with a kidney stone this week. I thought she needed a little treat. So, I stitched up a one-inch wide wristlet with her monogram on it in her school colors. 

One Inch Wristlet and Basketball Bag Tag

Luci was in a play at her school last weekend and I stitched up a wristlet and bag tag to take to her instead of taking flowers. She is into the color purple right now. So, I knew how t start on her gift. Her school colors are black, navy, and orange. So, I trimmed it out by stitching her name and lining it with school colors. Because she recently made the middle school basketball, I also stitched up a bag tag for her. On the opposite side of the bag tag I put a pretty loopy L. Every time I monogram something for one of the granddaughters whose name begins with L, I think of the swoopy L used in Laverne and Shirley for Laverne's sweaters. 
 
Swoopy, Laverne-type L!

- What I've Been Reading -

I haven't made a lot of time for reading this week. After finishing my last book, I decided that I would dig into something that is engaging but not provoking deep thought. Only Lovers in the Building by Nadine Gonzalez fits the bill. It was promoted as a beach read and, while I am not lolling on the beach, I do have that sort of frame of mind when I make the time to read lately. So, it is perfect for short jags of reading without immersing myself into a story. 

- What I've Been Loving -

Every fall for years and years I found myself at a big box store or an office supply store browsing through items and gathering needs for back to school. Since I retired a couple of years ago, I didn't have that ritual and, frankly, it has been pretty nice. This week, however, my volunteer work required that I get a copy of an eighteen by twenty-four inch map. I also needed an enlarged copy of an eleven by fourteen map. So, off to a local Staples store I trekked. I was under a bit of a time crunch. I had exactly ninety minutes and I knew that my travel time was going to be at least twenty minutes both ways. Thankfully, everything worked out beautifully and I made it back home for a virtual meeting with fifteen minutes to spare!

I walked in the door of the Staples store, asked the associate at the front of the store to point me in the right direction, and only had to walk about twenty-five feet to the next counter for service. The young woman took a look at my maps and made quick work of enlarging what I requested. The other map looked pretty delicate to her - translation - It was old and a wee bit fragile. So, she suggested that I download a scanning app to my phone and send her a digital photo for reproducing it. She talked me through each step with patience and pleasantry. Soon, I was walking out the door with clear, easy to read copies that I needed. I cannot say how much I appreciate a friendly, efficient, and helpful associate when I have business to conduct. 

At the end of every summer, the Mister is tired and frazzled from mowing so much grass, harvesting hay, and generally maintaining our farm. He always talks about wanting to move during that time of year. So, earlier this week I suggested that we go looking for some place that would be better than here. He mentioned such an interest to an acquaintance one day and had an offer to show off a place the next day. Yesterday, we enjoyed a nice drive through the country and a tour around a place that we truly enjoyed and might even consider as a new perch. We are in the thinking and wondering phases. All that to say, again, efficient and helpful responses really made a difference and encouraged us. 


I guess you could say that I'm really loving the fact that there still are folks out there who listen when you talk, who are truly wanting to be helpful, who are kind and encouraging. Sometimes I hold on to a negative attitude about things because I listen to a newscaster or read an informative piece , or encounter a person who is not the most pleasant. This week, it seems, that I came in contact with folks who are a breath of sunshine and I am loving that!

I hope your week had some breaths of sunshine to hold onto and that this weekend is one that helps to embrace fall and coziness. Lest I make the mistake of not mentioning the weather, we have had cooler temperatures this week and rain is predicted for our weekend and I am really looking forward to it!

Monday, October 5, 2026

Today I noticed...The flutter of falling leaves.

Off and on today I sat at my desk, which is right in front of a double window. I couldn't help but notice that each time I looked out there was a steady stream of leaves fluttering down and twirling along. 

I know that the dry weather has caused some of the leaves to dry up and fall already but it is also a sure sign that fall is in the air. 





Friday, October 2, 2026

Just 3 Things | #47

I learned today that in our area we have had thirty-five consecutive days without measurable rainfall. That is creeping up close to a record that was set in 1963. That is a long time record that we have a pretty good chance of breaking! We also had temperatures creep back up into the sweltering level. The local meteorologists say we are looking at some cooler days ahead and maybe even some rain for the weekend. I'm hoping we don't break the dry weather record. When did I get to be the old person who always talks about the weather?! 

This week I worked on some quick projects and stitched up a little something for myself. I ordered some fabric to make pillowcases for the grandsons. I'd been seeing lots of frilly and lacey and girly pillowcases and the idea hit me that one doesn't see much like that in the way of masculine-looking styles. Guys probably don't think about that sort of thing like women do but I think they probably appreciate them when it is tailored specifically for them. So, I took a little time and personalized and stitched up some pillowcases this week using this tutorial to remind me how to do it. For a couple of them I used the same fabric for the cuff as the main part of the pillowcase. I just inserted a small strip of contrast fabric to perk things up. For the other, I used three different fabrics - one for the cuff, one for the accent strip, and one for the main part of the pillowcase.


The fabrics are soft and cheerful and I think they turned out cute. For one of them, I noticed that the fabric was printed on it a bit crooked. So, to make my pillowcase fabric sit nicely when completed, I ripped the edge to straighten it. When I di that, I was left with only about six inches for the cuff and that is just way to small. So, I went digging into my fabric stash and found something that would coordinate. That means that the baseball print is not on the cuff of that pillowcase but I think it turned out wonderfully just the same. When I do a quick project like that, I really am tempted to order more fabrics and make the same for lots more folks! The pillowcases feature fabrics with prints that show each guy's interest. One is a baseball player and the other two are on bowling teams. I think these will put a smile on the guys' faces and they will see them as a fun way to brighten up their room. I believe that even stinky, middle school boys will like them! 

My first placemats

When I first got my new sewing machine, I embroidered and stitched out some placemats for the Mister and me. We have used them daily and enjoyed them. Some spills have left a few stains on them. So, I decided to make some fresh ones. I dug out the left over kitchen window treatment fabric that I had and found another fabric in my stash that would coordinate with them. Then, I went back into my pin board and found the tutorial I used for self-binding placemats. I used the same monogram font to embroider one side that I had used for the previous placemats. It is bold and stands out well on a busy print. This time I stitched it out in two shades of blue.


I made this set reversible and I used a lighter loft batting for the filler. So, I think I'm going to like that better. I ran rows of quilting stitches from top to bottom at about two inch intervals. Then, added the monogram. For the back side, I used a bit of fabric that I had left from some classroom curtains when I was teaching back in the day. So, let this be a reminder: when one buys good quality fabric, it really lasts! I embroidered a simple O and a bit of greenery in the center of that side of the placemats.


I had purchased a bundle of designs that have greenery and berries and some have bows that will frame something like a monogram letter or could stand alone as decor. These placemats are nothing fancy and were truly made using just scraps of fabric that I had in my stash. However, I created something new and useful and it will not only protect our table but brighten up our kitchen. I feel like I have a kitchen update or a treat. Who doesn't like a treat?



For this project there were lots of steps - cutting the fabric, quilting, embroidering, measuring and mapping out the self-binding part and the mitered corners, and construction stitching. Because I hadn't made the self-binding and mitered corners in quite some time, it took me a bit of reading and thinking and measuring and planning to map it all out. When I make something like that, I really appreciate the cost of custom linens a lot more. Since I took my time and read the tutorials and gave it some thought, I have little to no mistakes or frustration. That is always rewarding when creating.

- What I've Been Reading -

I read John Grebble is Gone by Peter James this week. It was a very short read but it surely promoted thought on my part. Here is the brief summary Amazon gives: John Grebble wakes up to discover he’s been declared dead. His bank account is frozen, his car repossessed, and his entire existence erased.

While reading, I just had to pause and think about what that might be like - to have one's identity not just stolen, but dispensed with, wiped out, declared over. I had some fraudulent charges on my credit card recently and it really was a headache. The card policy is great because they will alert me when there is something odd like this situation where the fraudster had tried to purchase something from a tropical juice bar and hotel rooms in New Jersey. When alerted, I let the company know that I was not in New Jersey and had no plans to be there in the near future, they began investigating and denied the charge at no cost to me. They cancelled that card and sent me another. Then, I had to update the things that I have set up to autopay from that card and places where it is my default card when I order something. That was a little bit of a headache. I could keep operating and using my check card, however, since it wasn't tied to that card. So, I cannot imagine what it would be like to have all accounts frozen and begin losing possessions because of a fraudster.

I also did a bit of thinking and investigating to find out what I need to do to make certain that the Mister or my children would have no problems sorting out my accounts when I actually do pass away. Taking care of some of that business is on my upcoming agenda. So, beyond just being an interesting read, the story also nudged me a bit. I think knowing that it is fiction made me enjoy the ending but it also made me think about how I might react as well.

-What I've Been Loving -

Lately the Mister and I have been into simple, old fashioned fare for dinner. Our breakfast and lunch habits have been about the same - sandwiches, salads, or left overs - but our attitude about dinner has changed a little bit. Last week I leaned on some simple casseroles from my younger days and they were delicious. So, this week I decided to just step into that a bit more. One night this week I made meatloaf. I had put a pot of pinto beans on to slow cook and added mashed potatoes and we had a simple country meal that the Mister talked about for a couple of days afterward. The great thing about having the meatloaf is that there was leftovers and I had a meatloaf sandwich and the Mister had it with some veggies on the side and we enjoyed it almost as much the second time around as when it was fresh out of the oven. 


I mixed up some good old fashioned pimento cheese and we ate it stuffed into a tomato and on a sandwich and with crackers for a day or two. Again, an old favorite that we just don't mix up all that often. 

We've had low calorie fare some nights as well - shrimp tacos, a salad topped with chicken, fresh stir-fried veggies and chicken. So, we haven't reverted to that old-time, high-fat, high-carb sort of diet that the old folks once lived on. It's funny how one night meatloaf and beans and taters seems just the thing and a salad seems better the following night to sort of balance things out.

I don't know if we had gotten into a rut and just were eating the same old, same old there for a while or if I had gotten lazy and didn't want to think about meal prep or what the deal was. Sometimes, shaking things up by going back to the old fashioned tastes from days gone by really makes a difference in my attitude in the kitchen. I know the Mister likes it when I lean into old-time, country farm fare and lately I've been loving it sometimes, too.

It has been a pretty quiet and ordinary week around here and those are really the best kind! I'm off to watch one of the granddaughters perform in a play this weekend. She is a member of the cast of The Addams Family. Da-Da-Da-Dup, snap, snap!

Tuesday, September 29, 2026

Today I noticed...A long-time friend always makes for a comfortable chat.

I have a couple of friends who I have known since we were girls in elementary school. We shared similar interests and had somewhat similar backgrounds and have children who are near to the same age. 

We don't see one another nearly as frequently as we did as youngsters nor even as often as we did when we were raising our children. Yet, it seems like we can sort of pick up conversations where we left off and carry on when we do connect. 

I learned last month that one of those gal's husband had a health issue and was moving from hospital to a rehab facility. She traversed quite a trek back and forth to the hospital and then to the rehab facility each day to spend time with him. Then, she continued to work and keep their family farm running as well. So, I knew that she was exhausted and a phone conversation truly confirmed that. As a result, she has been on my mind a lot and I've been saying little prayers for her and her family. 

I touched base with my friend today and am so relieved that she sounded so much better and even optimistic. Her husband is home and starts out-patient rehab tomorrow. He is somewhat mobile and is progressing and getting better, she said. 

It was so good to talk to her and we almost seem to just pick up a thread of conversation and run with it as though we are still car-pooling our kindergarteners back and forth to school. I hope the few minutes we chatted were a good thing for her because those were some of the best moments of my day today. 

I hope everybody has a chance to catch up with a long-time friend this week and have a comfortable chat.