If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.

Monday, May 27, 2019

Memorial Day 2019

Memorial Day
 As a young girl, I recall celebrating Decoration Day.  We all looked forward to this day because it was the unofficial beginning of summertime.
 I've learned that it originated as a southern tradition.  I can attest to it being celebrated with gatherings and lots of good eats in a patriotic way even though I wasn't certain exactly what we were celebrating back then.  It began as a time to honor the fallen soldiers of the war that claimed more American lives than any other in our existence - The Civil War.   According to History, the end of May was chosen because it wasn't the anniversary of any particular battle.  In 1868, James Garfield made a speech and 5000 participants decorated the graves of 20,000 soldiers in Arlington Cemetery.  
Over time people began honoring American military personnel lost in all wars.  Then, 100 years later, the last Monday in May was designated as a federal holiday and was called Memorial Day.  Many Americans visit cemeteries and memorials to place flowers and flags in honor of the fallen.  Some wear red poppies in remembrance of those lost in war.  That tradition is related to the poem by John McCrae called "In Flanders Fields."
 Today, we hold the torch high in honor of those who gave their lives in order for us to live free.  While we have the freedom of speech and actions that are preserved by soldiers lost at war, may we learn from the past and strive to be more united, to look for the positive aspects of our neighbors, and to build one another up in collaboration.  May we think of those who sacrificed and grow stronger and less divided as we honor the lost - much like those long years ago as they honored their lost on Decoration Day.  

Sunday, May 26, 2019

What's Happening Round Here

You might say this has been hay week at Twin Oaks Farm. 
Honestly, that seems to have been the focus for the past couple of weeks. 
First there is the getting ready stage. 
The part where the equipment is greased and blades are sharpened and tractor is serviced with new oil, filters, and that sort of thing. 
Then, there is the part where the cutting takes place.  Then, there is the part where the teddering takes place. 
Then there is the part where the raking and baling takes place. 
Now, we are in the hauling and stacking in the barn stage. 
Of course, all throughout each of those parts and stages was the checking the weather prediction part.  Morning checks of weather predictions. 
Mid-day checks of weather predictions.  Evening checks of weather predictions.  Bedtime checks of weather predictions. 
We check The Weather Channel.  We check local news TV channels.  We check every weather prediction app available on our phones. 
Weather is all-important when it is hay time. Today it is hot and breezy.  Perfect hay weather.  So, at the end of the day, those fifty round bales will be in the barn waiting for winter-time. 

That about sums up what's been happening round here!

Sunday, May 12, 2019

Mother's Day Message

The hardest job I ever took on in my lifetime has been mothering.  It is truly a learn-as-you-go sort of gig and one that provides loads of opportunities for mistakes. 


I am grateful for the opportunity and the good fortune that my children turned out well in spite of me!


It is humbling because I have always tried to get it right and always strove to do my best.  I quickly learned that just because they look so much alike, that does not mean you do things the same way to meet their needs.


It is a job that requires tenacity and patience.  It is a job that brings frustration because I didn't really know what I was doing at times and it provides boundless rewards even when I STILL don't know what I am doing.


I loved mothering (and I guess I still do) - the early part where we were getting to know one another and I learned to meet their needs.  I loved the part where I was nurturing and guiding, and teaching.  I loved the stage where we became collaborators working jointly to achieve a shared goal.  Now, I love the stage where I am the sounding board and supporter.  Through it all, we mothers are called upon to prop up our children at times, cheer them on at times, be the voice of reason, and offer them a haven and I've loved those opportunities as well.


Now, I get to watch from the sidelines as my children and bonus children are parenting and see my grandchildren's mothers attend to the hardest parts of the job.  I often pass along words of wisdom that I find in blog posts or on infographics and posters.  I pass along words of encouragement and lift up prayers for them and my grandchildren.  I stand on the sidelines to support them when they call upon me - which is not very often.  I stand on the sidelines as a listener and encourager.  I stand on the sidelines and enjoy the view. 


I am truly thankful for the many blessings of motherhood.  I hope your day is filled with blessings and experiences of all the mothers touching your life.

Happy Mother's Day!



Tuesday, April 23, 2019

Kitchen Updates

From the first moment I walked into our house, I knew that I wanted to do some updating and make-overing - especially in the kitchen!  I began gathering and pinning inspirational ideas and keeping hard-copy magazine photos to provide me with ideas and guidance.  Below are some of the ideas that I have dubbed as my favorites for a place to start - my kitchen island.



Do you see a theme developing?  I landed on a couple of ideas and began to think and ponder and plan.  Now, let's take a look at where we started.  This was the look of the kitchen the first time I walked in the door.  Get ready!

I knew that this wonderful space had potential.  I knew that It would take some time and money.  I knew that I was going to have to take this at a turtle's pace.  Slow and steady.

So, I started by just covering up all that fruit.  ALL.  THAT.  FRUIT!  Paint is a wonderful transformer and is relatively inexpensive.  So, I started with a simple couple of gallons of paint.  I chose a light yellow color because I liked the color found in the rocks of the fireplace.  It was a bit of sunshine and that is exactly what this place needed!

Mike liked using the island as a place for us to eat since there are just the two of us and it was closer to the fridge and stove than the table which sits across the room.  I'm one who likes to sit across from my dining partner because I think it leans toward conversation better.  We lived with that for a few years.  Then, I moved my old kitchen table into this kitchen for when one or two of the grands stays with us and we still ate informally at the island and the table.

Last year I got the wild idea to turn the island around where the drawers faced the oven and Mike and I began sitting at the table where we were facing one another.  That made me much happier.  Then, I got to thinking about the overhang on the island and how it was wide enough to cover a bookcase.  So, my search for inspiration was amped up a bit.

I did some thinking and figuring and decided that I could tackle adding a bookcase to the island on my own.  I mapped out a plan with a couple pieces of inexpensive pine shelving, some trim, and a piece of bead board paneling.  So, I measured things out and talked it out with Mike and headed off to the local big box building supply store - Home Depot.  I also bit the bullet and ordered a long piece of butcher block counter top and that ugly green counter top was on it's way out.  Yahoo!  I met up with a couple of guys who did the cutting of my wood pieces for me and headed home on a Friday afternoon.

The next morning I trucked down to the local Ace Hardware store.  The guys there mixed me up a couple of quarts of Hale Navy by Benjamin Moore.  When I got home, I gave everything I thought I was going to use a couple of coats of paint.  I immediately fell in love with that deep, rich, navy color.

After a couple of days to allow the paint to dry thoroughly, I pulled out my drill and began to add a few screws to my painted pieces and joined things together.  I wanted it to be simple but really wanted the bead board detail like I envied in Marion Parsons' butler's pantry and Ann Drake's island.  I think that little detail really makes a difference - and it cost no more because of the size of the bead board sheet. Win!  Win!
I used a piece of 1 x 2" to make the shelf supports and put them on either end of the shelving and along the back on the bead board.  So, the shelves are quite stable and shouldn't sag even with lots of cookbooks on them.  My initial plan was to add baseboard around the bottom but Mike didn't seem to like that idea.  So, I bumped the bottom shelf up a bit so that Rosie, our robotic vacuum can easily slide under there to clean up the crumbs and dirt.

I bought a nice beaded trim to cover the shelf supports and to beef up the front side of the shelves as well.  Again, a little detail that isn't really needed but I think it certainly finished things off and made it look more polished.

Since I had planned to use baseboard, I had planned to hide the bottom shelf edge behind it.  So, at the last minute, Stephen, my bonus son, cut a piece of the left-over trim to face that shelf to match the top one.  He wanted to give me time to paint it before he used his little micro-nailer to attach it but I convinced him that I could paint the little bits of trim after he attached it and wap, wap, wap he did!  I was kind of amazed at the size of those little nails he used.  I think they are about the same fine guage as insulin needles!  T-I-N-Y!

Mike has a friend who works in his son's cabinet shop.  So, he asked DeDe to come get the counter top and cut it to size.  He was generous enough to do that and to sand the edge smooth as well.  So, Stephen muscled the piece we needed in and crawled into the cabinet with his drill and attached it with a couple of screws.  Voila!  A beautiful transformation!

I did a bit of touch-up painting.  Then, used some Howard Cutting Board Oil to begin water-proofing the top.  I used three generous coats of the oil and it was soaked up like the wood was a sponge.  I also just swooned at the way it brought out the beauty of the wood.  Next, I added three coats of Howard Butcher Block Conditioner.  

I painted the base part of the cabinet where the drawers and doors are and the drawer fronts right away.  However, I waited a couple of days to paint the doors where I could take them outside and have plenty of space for them to lay out flat.  My plan was to use a foam roller and brush on the doors so that there would be no brush strokes that showed.  However, it still seemed to look a bit streaky when I painted the grooved areas and the raised outside edges of the paneled doors.  So, I decided that I'd rather see brush strokes than have a streaky mess, too. 

At this stage I was so excited and loved the new look of our island!  The shelves were beautiful with that bead board back and beaded front trim.  I caught myself just wandering into the kitchen to smile and admire it!

A close-up look shows just how beautiful and rich that deep color and trim and bead board truly is.

I added some of my cookbooks and some pretties to dress it up a bit.  I'm not certain that all of this will stay that way but it works for now.  Probably when I have time this summer, I will do some adjusting and add a few more of my cookbooks.

On the back side - the side facing the oven, I added the same white porcelain knobs back.  I'm not certain that will stay but, for now, I like the clean, simple look.

One more look at that bead board and shelves and trim.

An over all look with my galvanized tray to corral a few regularly needed items.  I will add another coat of the conditioner sometime this week and then, again each week for a while.  After a while, I will simply need to add a coat about once per month and it will be water resistant.

And here is our everyday look.  Comfy and cozy.  A true farmhouse kitchen because, after all, we do live on a farm!

P.S. I already have a project in mind for the next step.  And, I may or may not even have a couple of boxes stacked in the back bedroom.