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Snow Days

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Today is The Day

Today is the day that the family comes and I am SO EXCITED!

The stockings are all hung at the mantel and stuffed full of goodness and treasures chosen as extra treats. 

There's a special extension cord for the grown gals. I ordered one for myself back in the spring and I just love it. So, I thought they needed one, too! There's good smelling treats to freshen their cars and a jar of smelly jelly from Yankee Candle. There were so many fragrances to choose from and the names of them were just enticing! Warm Luxe Cashmere, Coconut Beach, Mcintosh, and Lemon Lavender, are the ones I finally chose. Don't those names just make you want to curl up with a book and a cup of warmness to sip through the winter? (I may have splurged and picked out a couple of wonderfully named varieties for myself, too!) I always add a kitchen gadget of some kind and this year's first choice turned out to be a dud. I saw this thing that would be an easy guide for cutting up lettuce and ordered all of us one. Not so much. They will get that but they will also get one of these cute little snack bowls that I like so much! I'm going to encourage them to fill it with candies or Christmas Crack to snack on the road. 

There's an inexpensive little jewelry trinket - an elasticized beaded bracelet that is fun to slip on to brighten up the day.  I ordered myself some last year and every single time I wore one to work, a coworker or a student would comment on how fun it looked and who doesn't need a little fun in their lives some days? There's also some things that all moms need like a stick for preventing or treating chapped lips, hand sanitizer, and sanitizing wipes. I hit upon a great sale with some fun flavorful fragrances and loaded up on them for stocking stuffers for everybody!

For the grown guys there's chapped lip prevention, which is an annual staple for stuffing stockings since back in the beginning of my stocking stuffing times. There's home-made deer jerky provided by the mister. There's some sort of tool or gadget that every guy needs to keep in his truck. They each got a headlamp flashlight because they probably will have times when they need to shed a little light on something while their hands are full. The rest of the space is filled with Little Debbie treats, candy, and peanut butter cracker snacks. Mike says, "Something to eat is always a good gift!"

The little fellows also got a headlamp flashlight because I figured they'd want it for playing outside after dark and dad would not want them borrowing his. All the grands get socks in their stockings because the family joke is that when you are on the naughty list you get socks and underwear! They also get some hand sanitizer, lip balm, and sanitizing wipes because I thought that would fit into backpacks pretty well and we all need those items during the winter - especially now. They have some snack treats and little games for keeping them quiet when that is needed by mom. All the grands also got a Gratitude Journal. Don't we all need to pause every so often and think about how grateful we are? I figure it is never too early to encourage this as a practice and this option has spaces for picture drawing, early writing, inventive spelling and all those things this school teacher wants to encourage the young grands to experience!

The female grands are sort of divided into the bigs and the littles. Four of them are tweens and teens. So, they got a cute change purse with a bee on it which I hope makes them think fondly of their Grand B! They also got things like lip gloss and make up applicators and nail files. Of course, the lip balm, hand sanitizer, and sanitizing wipes also went into their stockings because they carry backpacks, too. They got cute socks, fun bracelets, mirrored sunglasses, a cool face washing scrubber, and a gratitude journal as well. All of the granddaughters got necklaces with a fun and wise message from their loving grandparents. The three little girls also got lip balm, hand sanitizer, and sanitizing wipes. Cute little anklets, fun bracelets, and fruit snacks rounded out their full stockings. 

As you can tell, the stocking stuffing is always a fun way for me to give quirky treats and odd things that make us all smile and some things that are necessities but always good as a gift as well. We generally share a meal first and the littles' excitement sort of builds as they try to imagine what might be in the stack of gifts. They tend to eat very little because playing with one another is far more important when we are all together. 

Once we dig into the pile, chaos ensues! Then, they all have to check out what one another got and play time continues. This year there are nerf guns, stomp rockets, doll accessories such as gardening toys and cooking toys and doll makeup, and pound puppies and Minnie Mouse dolls. Of course, all the grands get clothes because I still find it fun to shop for children's clothing since I only do it for birthdays and Christmas. We adhere to the general rule of something they want, something they need, something to wear, something to read. So, that is what fills the boxes. Everybody provides a list and I get to choose gifts from the list. Some get bigger ticket items (costing over $100 - we do buy for 18 people, you know) and some get several lesser items. No need to plaster on the smile and say thanks for something that they will never use or want. The lists help me immensely and I feel certain they are satisfied with everything they get that way - very little need to return or dispose of an unwanted item when I know exactly what I'm looking to buy! We like to give experiences such as trip to the zoo or something like that but since last year's zoo tickets have yet to be used, this year there's Stuff.

Mike and I have spent the morning quietly sipping coffee and building our energy to be prepared for the excitement of their visit. I've got to sign off and put the hash brown casserole, breakfast casserole, and sausage balls in the oven. Then, mix up the breakfast punch and crock pot hot cocoa. Mike has already ambled to the kitchen to start frying bacon, warm the country ham, and bake the biscuits. The table is set and we think we are, too!

Happy New Year!

Welcome to a new year full of promises! 

We hope that 2021 is better to you than any other ever has been before!

Happy Anniversary!

I loved you way back then!

And I love you now!

Mixed Messages

This is sort of a random post but I have a couple of photos from my phone that just seem too good not to share.  

The first picture is one I made at the creek here on the farm. Earlier this year Mike and I were rescuing some of the larger rocks that had washed down our creek during a major rain storms.  We needed to get out of the house. We needed a bit of exercise. We needed to exert some energy. We needed to fill a big ditch that had washed out between the house and the barn. So, with free fill rock available, we decided to do a couple of loads each day - rescuing them from the creek bed where they were not needed and moving them to the ditch where they were. We would load the bed of the ATV and dump it into the ditch. On one particular loading session, I noticed this series of holes.

At first it was just a bit disconcerting because it was almost as if the ground was making a face at me - mocking me. Then, it occurred to me that often holes like this were havens for snakes. So, during that work session, I had a bit of a hard dime concentrating on picking up the bigger rocks around that area because I was a bit busy watching those holes to make certain that no visitors popped out!

The second picture is one of a box that was delivered during all of our online Christmas shopping deliveries. I just happened to notice this sticker on the bottom of a box. It made me pause a bit. I wondered if maybe Mike might have been into some sort of activity that I wasn't aware of. 

Ole Red

I've posted about the red truck that was my Daddy's pride and joy before. I don't know why I became the caretaker of it because I really thought one of his grandchildren would want the truck as a fun means of transportation. When nobody really wanted to take on the responsibility, I told Mama that I would. So, Ole Red stays parked in Mike's barn for most of the time enjoying a well-earned rest. 

Every now and then I take it out for a Sunday drive and blow the dust off of it. It is fun to drive for nostalgia's sake. Ole Red is a 1969 Ford Ranger pickup truck. Most of it is just like it was when it rolled off the assembly line. Daddy had it painted and new carpet put in it and had the seat recovered years ago. He replaced some pieces of chrome on it and it has a newer tailgate and floor in the bed because I had a Dalmatian dog when I was in high school that rode in it and would sometimes relieve himself on the tailgate, causing it to rust. My sister and Daddy put a newer radio with cassette player in it back in the 1980s when she was driving it to school.  I've had to replace the windshield wipers because the style that came on it are no longer manufactured. (You can see the vintage nature of the ceiling in the photos!) The rest, however is just like it was in 1969!

I always have fun when I take it out but I know that if I am going to have to stop somewhere, I need to have my hair combed and wear decent clothes - not just jump in and go for a joy ride in the old grungies! Why? Because whenever we stop somewhere, inevitably somebody will stroll over and want a closer look and ask what year it was made and where did I get it. 

There have been a whole lot of advancements that I take for granted since 1969. The steering column is longer and makes the steering wheel sit a whole lot closer than my newer truck. The windows are the old crank style that take a little more time and effort to raise and lower. Reaching the wiper control is a bit further from my fingertips because the dash is further from me and the steering wheel is so close to my belly! The headlight dimmer is a button on the floor and there are a few more little things like that which make it different from a newer model pickup.

When I've had to have some upkeep on it like changing the oil or swapping out the wiper blades, the guys at the auto care place always enjoy the opportunity to work on it and many times will have their photo made alongside of it. A couple of other folks wanted to use it for photos as well and one friend told me she thought I could make appointments and charge folks to have their picture made with it! For us it is just a nostalgic ride and a wonderful connection to my Daddy. 

It almost always brings a smile to my face and to those around me when we take it out, though. I think Daddy would be glad every time we go out for a joy ride and I hope to pass it along to somebody else in the family to enjoy some day down the road. Of course, that means that it will have to be somebody who learns to drive a standard shift, on-the-collar!

In the meantime, we will just smile and scoot on down the road for a joy ride. If you see us, wave!