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Tuesday, February 16, 2016

The Pounding

My niece, Megan, got married last month.
She got married right in the middle of that snowstorm we had.

The wedding was far, far south of here - near the Alabama line and still they had issues because of the snowstorm.
They wound up having to change the venue the day before the ceremony because the road to the church was un-navigate-able.
They wound up having to prepare their own corn boil for the wedding reception because the caterer couldn't get there.

They started the ceremony a little late so that some of the guests could slip and slide to the wedding.
My parents, Mike and I weren't able to get there.

So, at the last minute, they picked up the phone and FaceTimed with my parents.
They adapted.
They made it work.
They are married as married can be.
Wrapped with smiles and love that only newlyweds can wear.
They shared the joy of receiving things to make their home feel the presence of family.
They began building memories that will follow them forever.
They opened the gifts which were assembled with love and happy thoughts.
They learned a little more about their family members and one another.
Their pantry will be fuller.
Their bellies will be warmed and filled with the love shared by family.
Their home will be blessed.
Their home will have decorations and touches which surround them with the hugs of relatives.
We planned a simple affair.
Our children, Mike, and I recently hosted an old-fashioned pounding to celebrate their new life together.
We served simple fare.
Bryan grilled up some Boston butts to make delicious Bar-B-Que and stirred up some of his special white sauce to top it.
Bridgette and Jessica baked up cute little brownie bites.
Jessica stirred up some slaw.
I picked up corn-light-bread and chips.
I stirred up some baked beans.
We invited aunts and uncles in our extended family to join us for the celebration.
We chatted and laughed and enjoyed the fellowship
.
We jotted down some advice on marriage for the newlyweds.
Some advice was philosophical and some was short, quick, and to the point!
Some advice was straightforward and some was wreathed with emotion but all was heartfelt!
Some advice took lots of thought and reflection.
Some was more everyday and humorous.
All of it was offered with love and practicality.
The folks brought gifts that were practical, utilitarian, and sensible as well as a few which were extraordinary and unique.
Wishes were wrapped and included with merriment.
Blessings abound and happiness multiplied while we supped and interacted with joy for the newlyweds.
From eldest to youngest, we al surrounded them.
A good time was had by all.
And we sent them off with a bounty, warm hearts, and sweet memories.
May they have a long and happy life together!